Sex ritual is a skill as well as an art. To develop your magical muscles, you must first learn specific techniques and then practice them, just like with any other art or ability.

Prior to having sex, choose a "telos," which is an aim, emotion, or goal you want to achieve. Select just one goal at a time so that you can give it your whole focus.

If you are working with a partner, make sure you and your partner are in agreement on the outcome you want to achieve by talking through your goals beforehand. If each of you is working toward a distinct goal, the results you generate will probably be jumbled. You won't succeed in achieving your goals because of your opposing motives, which may even obstruct or negate one another's.

You might want to illustrate your telos with an image. Pictures have even greater power to produce outcomes than words. It's magic time now! (We suggest creating a sacred area by igniting incense, lighting a candle, or expressing purpose.)

Decelerate. Instead of taking it slow during sex, many of us have a tendency to sprint for the finish line. However, extending the encounter and letting your sexual energy progressively grow will increase your magical ability. Bask in your own sexiness. Gradually build up your enthusiasm until you're on the verge of an orgasm. Then retreat a bit. Take a few deep breaths.

Change from stimulating the genitalia to massaging the arms, back, feet, and so forth. Once the first shock has worn off, progressively increase the intensity of the excitement until you are almost beyond the point of no return. Relax once more. For as long as you like, keep going this way, gradually increasing the intensity. You'll become adept at "staying on the edge" for extended periods of time with practice.

Remember your telos throughout this high-arousal moment. Your ability to attract what you want more quickly increases with the intensity of your sensations, and in this almost orgasmic condition, your magnetic power is immense. While you don't have to constantly be acutely aware of your goal, you should always be conscious of why you are performing this sexual ritual. Think of your intention in terms of the energy you're raising and circulating through your body.

Hold your telos firmly in your thoughts and experience the joy of seeing your desired outcome materialize in your life when you're finally ready to release the energy you've accumulated. Next, allow your climax to envelop you.

When that happens, it pushes your intention aside, propelling you forward like a wave pushing a boat along its crest. Your telos travels through the universe on the strength of your produced momentum, settling into the matrix's fertile womb to give birth to a miraculous offspring.

Let go of your telos and unwind after an orgasm. Savor the peace following the storm. Now let the universe fulfill its portion.

Note: You can collect the semen using a container if a male is carrying out this ceremony. To make the spell even more effective, locate a plant that has some soil on it. If you want the intention to keep growing and eventually manifest, you can dig a tiny hole and plant the seed.